Are Your Begging For His Attention?

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There you are desperately seeking for his/her attention. He/she knows very well that you won't quit because of your personal reasons that i deem them not ethical to mention. You are  a slave for your own decisions. But Why?
Everlyne Nyanchoka gives an account of her  slavery while he was in a relationship with Joseph Okaya. Okaya is a student in Moi University Main Campus Eldoret. He is the 'prince of grooming' in the university as students refer him. Yes, he is ever smart. He is always in his suit from Sunday to  Friday. His color blending talent adds him additional attractive feature. When in his bow-tie, one can never mistake him for an hustler.It his because of his abject love for gorgeous dressing and celebrity nature that Joseph was nicknamed O.K.
It was on one of the most treasured campus occasion "Freshaas nite" when Everlyne Met O.K. Both had attended the occasion on the basis of being inculcated in the Campus. "I was convinced with my friends to accompany them to the Student Centre that night. I wore my blue dress which i was told was the best for such occasion. And just before we entered the auditorium, we met this man and he was quick to greet us. He was in royal Blue suit, white shirt and Blue bow-tie" Everlyne narrates.
According to her, everything started there. O.K accompanied the 'friends' later to their room in hostel J. Everlyne's heart grew fonder every knew day with his campus lover.  Days became weeks, weeks became months, but months never came to be years.
six months later, "exposure" took most of O.K. By then he knew the university well. He was becoming a celebrity. He was making technical appearances whenever he felt he should see Everlyne. He was already finding his way out of Everlyne's life. It even reached a point where he told her to quit and find herself another man.

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Everlyne was depressed. " Death was my constant companion,  I never attended lectures for nearly the whole of second semester" She notes. She says she even made a point to meet with her mentor but still it was a hell to face the reality.
Everlyne's story reminded of some things we do in a relationship that jeopardizes future. Imagine a scenario like this;  you sleep while unhappy because your boyfriend quarreled with you that you don't call him yet he calls you only at night; You fear mingling with your friends because he always think they are your 'other' boyfriends; you sometimes don't go for lecture because he wants to be with you when he is not busy; you go to his church just to please him and NOT God; and perhaps you spend sleepless nights thinking of how he talks to you.
Do you think such character will marry you?
I'm told your partner should be your number one friend. He should never be your boss. The best marriages are made by friends, not masters and subjects. Yes he is the head of the family by default. No one disputes that.

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O.K was right because he meet Everlyne when she was desperately in need of love. He was also being stupid for awakening love in a woman with not intention to love.
Everlyne was also being ridiculous for building castle in the air. Begging for his attention should never be your alternative. Let him beg for yours. After all, he is just a boyfriend, not your husband. If his time has expired let him go for new things to happen in your life. 

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'You Are Bound for Hell!'

 By Philiphine K. Cheptanui

Courtesy Moi University

These were the exact words of Moi University dean of Students Dr. Rev John Ayieko during the Moi University Christian Union  inauguration service of the SEC commissioners at lecture hall one (LH1) on Sunday 10th, 2016. The dean was telling the SEC commissioners on the exclusive event  graced by him and his wife Bilha Ayieko.
Speaking at the service where he was the speaker of the day, the dean warns the commissioners of misconduct during the course of student election. "Whoever will be dishonest, corrupt, tribalistic and without integrity is heading to hell. Hell awaits you". He plea with the commissioners to be rational and neutral in executing their roles to ensure peaceful elections.
While preaching at the service, the dean notes that the tribal lines has divided students to an alarming percentage.  According to the Dr Rev Ayieko, tribalism in discriminating against others on basis of race, tribe, ethnic group, culture and way of life. 
University elections countrywide has taken a new form over the last two/three years. Tribalism and ethnicity seem to have planted their roots deep into the university students. They vote along tribal lines which has compromised the meaning of "university". University means having characteristics of "all-inclusive". Students come from different backgrounds with totally varied characteristics. As such, university students are expected to share among themselves and exchange cultures. It is also expected that they are agents of change in the current contemporary society. They are therefore the ones to  promote national cohesion and togetherness through exchange of culture and way of living.
However, this is not the case with the current Kenyan university students. The tribal rift is widening day by day. Elections for 2015/16 were so wary that students in Moi university had to vacate the institution for a week. Several other students were suspended from the university for insightment. Some property was  also destroyed.
This year in the same university, things seem not to be alright. Students are colluding according to regions and tribes to form coalitions in the name of "to reflect national politics".
Dr Rev Ayieko was therefore invited to preside over the service. The Moi university Christian union gave him a topical theme to preach on.  The theme was: Tribalism and Politics. In an effort to ensure peaceful elections, the dean condemned any form of irregularity among the SEC commissioners. He urges every student to be vigilant and report any misconduct noted in the course of elections. "be your brother's keeper".   

Six killed, scores unaccounted for as gunmen attack Mandera bus

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Six people are dead after gunmen attacked two buses in  Mandera County this morning. The PSV buses were attacked between El Wak and Wargadud towns.
According to North Eastern Regional Coordinator Mahmoud Saleh, many other commuters were injured while others are still unaccounted for.
The attack is suspected to have been carried out by alshabaab malitia, Who have over time, disturb the country's peace. Many Country's innocent souls have been lost to the attacks of the alshabaab in recent past: think of Garissa Mass Massacre; think of The El Ade attack; think of the Westgate Mall attack; think of kapedo; just to mention a few.
 It is such a sad retrospect but the reality is much bitter.

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